Everyone experiences loss. It’s a natural part of life. The death of a loved one, a crippling accident, or the breakup of a significant relationship can shake you to your core. These events can be excruciating to deal with, and many people DON’T deal with them, hoping things will get better with time.
Sadly, that is often not the case. As a result, you may feel a persistent sadness, or a “knowing” that things are not quite right.
Then there are hidden losses. Something happened and you went on with your life and never dealt with it. You just kept going. You may not have even realized at the time how big it was. Yet, when you think about it, on occasion, you might feel a twinge of sadness, or pain, or regret for what might have been. It may have been the loss of your health, youth, beauty, sexiness, or lifestyle losses from a health crisis or financial disaster.
Losses block the energy flow in your life and you will hold them in your energetic field until they are released. You may feel them as a heaviness in your chest or a lump or congestion in your throat.
Unhealed loss can affect your relationships, your health, your cash flow; even your self esteem may plummet! Your emotions around a painful divorce or breakup may create a downhill spiral of apparent bad luck, financial disaster, and inability to move forward in a loving relationship. This need not be.
I came to MarBeth after I had just lost my mother and my job in the same week. I was terrified that I would be unable to find work or to support myself. I do not worry about this any more. I am able to see the positive in life and not the negative. I feel in control of my universe. I also feel an inner calm that I have not ever experienced before.
Josi Hausner, Sales Representative, New York
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Do you find yourself unconsciously repeating the same patterns, choosing the same type of situation or partner, yet hoping for a different outcome? Cindy (not her real name) felt trapped. She had strong feelings for an emotionally unavailable man, very much like her father who was distant and cold. Cindy’s love interest pursued other women openly, and dangled her on a string for years, yet she was unable to let him go. Does that sound like you?
If you, like Cindy, grew up in a dysfunctional family, where a parent, sibling, or caretaker was physically or emotionally abusive, distant, unavailable, or narcissistic, chances are you will attract a romantic partner, close friend, employer, or co-worker with similar characteristics. You may find yourself unconsciously repeating the pattern again and again, choosing the same type of situation or partner, yet hoping for a different outcome. You may think, “Perhaps this time things will be different and my boss or love interest will finally see me and appreciate me, or love me unconditionally.”
The people you attract may appear to be different from your parent and the circumstances dissimilar, but intrinsically, where it matters, they are the same. It’s impossible to read the label from within the jar, thus, ironically, people are often blind to their patterns. That is why a neutral observer can be so important to help you move through them. The silver lining is that repeating patterns can be a gateway to healing the past so you can move forward.
As we worked together, Cindy was empowered to shift her beliefs about herself and her value, and release her old self-sabotaging patterns. Not only was she finally happy and free to move on, but as an added bonus, when the energy shifted, her relationship with her father shifted too. For the first time in her life, he became warm, loving and appreciative.
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Why you keep choosing the same romantic partner in a different wrapping?
Why, when things look great financially, you pull defeat out of the jaws of victory?
Why you develop health issues when you begin an exciting new path?
If you are sick and tired of living Groundhog Day over and over again with the same results, here’s a ray of light. The truth is, it’s not your fault! There are forces at play you may not be aware of that have kept you stuck. Once you understand what’s been holding you in old repetitive, self-sabotaging behavior, you have the power to choose something different.
It’s been said that when you are inside the jar, you can’t see the label on the outside. Similarly, when you are inside your patterns, you may need a different vantage point to see what’s really happening with you.
I have found that there are 5 main reasons divorced women over 50 get stuck… family patterns, self-sabotaging beliefs, loss, unresolved issues from past lives, and energetic issues. After showing them how to release these issues, my clients have developed greater self-esteem, confidence, financial success, happier relationships with themselves and others, a deeper connection with All That Is. AND they have discovered that miracles are natural occurrences.
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I just rewatched a short, but profound video, “The Evolution of the Butterfly.” by cellular biologist Bruce Lipton, one of my favorite speakers and authors. Although it was published 8 years ago,it is highly relevant today. Lipton uses the metaphor of a caterpillar to explain the massive changes our society is experiencing.
Lipton explains that the caterpillar is comprised of 7 billion cells, and each cell, like those in the human body has a job; it knows exactly what to do: digestion, muscular movement, neurological, etc. The caterpillar grows and its cells perform their functions until it’s time to stop and transform into a butterfly.
As if on cue, the caterpillar stops functioning as a caterpillar, and there’s no work for the 7 billion cells to do. The cells are suddenly aware that, “This economy is shut down. All these workers suddenly have nothing to process, no work to do!” Society appear to break down, and there appears to be chaos.
And then… a new community of cells emerge, “imaginal cells,” identical to the other cells, except that they see a different future, and bring new ideas into the population. These new ideas create a new civilization, that is an evolutionary advance over the caterpillar. It’s not the end, but a new beginning as a beautiful butterfly emerges from the chrysalis.
Every human is a cell in the body of a new, evolving organism. “Our world is late stage caterpillar”, says Lipton. “We are leaving a world that is no longer sustainable and moving into one where we can thrive.” He says to LET GO of the old paradigm and allow the new to unfold.
What if, like the billions of cells within the butterfly, we can surrender the chaos of our current WORLD situation into the hand of a Higher Power. We are, in essence, responsible for our own thoughts, and our own surrender. Yet as millions of human “cells” can surrender into a state of allowance, our ascension into the new paradigm will surely be nothing short of miraculous.
I recently read about an Interheart study with almost 30,000 participants, that identified stress as a key risk factors for heart attacks that was modifiable. It got me thinking about how our thoughts are inter-connected with our health, wealth and happiness. This is especially relevant today with news headlines churning us up with constant threats to our health, economy, and world peace.
If our inner thoughts create our reality, and there are no idle thoughts, what if we could create a habit of thinking differently? Have you noticed how some thoughts make you happy and joyful, while others generate so much stress, sadness, anger, rejection, that you feel small and diminished?
Step 1. Be Aware
Did you know that over 70,000 thoughts careen through your minds every day? Notice what you’re thinking and you’ll get a sense whether yours are critical and judgmental, focused on lack, or blaming others for what’s wrong in your life. Ask yourself how they make you feel? Just notice and don’t judge yourself. What are your thoughts after reading a news article or watching the news? Are you glued to your news feed?
Step 2. Choose Wisely
Deliberately choose thoughts of appreciation for everything good in your life. Notice positive aspects to everyone and everything in your life. Choose thoughts that make you feel good, because feeling good is the antithesis of stress. And step away from the news!
Step 3. Love Yourself
Spend several minutes daily thinking loving thoughts about yourself. “I’m a beautiful person”, “I deserve love” “I’m successful”, “I am happy to be me”, ” I am safe”, etc.
Try this for a week, ans let me know how this Self-Healing strategy works for you.
Looking for a 2019 free of stress and overwhelm?
Here’s my gift to you…the key to Peace, Love, Joy and Miracles. It’s the 10 Pillars of Peace, a poster I created just for you! Simply choose one of the pillars and focus on it for a week. Meditate on it. Use it as an affirmation. Post it around your house and work. Live it. If you forget, and lose your peace, don’t judge yourself. You made a mistake. Just let it go and return to your focus. The next week, choose another. Soon you will be feeling greater peace and happiness.
To download this poster, click on the image. Then save the image that appears in a new window.
A great way to accelerate your peace is to join my weekly LIVE meditation for Global Peace, broadcast every Monday at noon ET (9am PT) and meditate with me daily at https://www.facebook.com/groups/worldpeaceexperiment/
As more people embrace personal peace, and focus on World Peace, we’ll experience greater harmony on our beautiful planet!
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