Truer words may have never been spoken than the timeworn cliché, “It’s not you, it’s me.” 
Although commonly known now as an easy way to end a romantic relationship, the truth is, it really never is about the other person and it is ALWAYS about you.
In any relationship you have, you are always the common denominator.
It’s very important that you learn to fully love and accept yourself for who you are, right now, if you want to have amazing and beautiful relationships.
The Law of Attraction says that the energy you put out is what will come back so if you don’t love yourself, it’s going to be challenging to find others who do.
If you aren’t quite sure what your best qualities are, ask a few very close friends to share how they see you so you can appreciate yourself in the same way.
It’s sad that we often say things to ourselves that we would never say to someone we didn’t like, let alone someone we cared about.
Don’t ever say mean things to yourself.
Did you know that at your very core, you are the purest love and light? Love yourself first and others can’t help but fall in love with you.
© 2013 MarBeth Dunn – all rights reserved
